Photoshop :: How To Stop Automatically Adjusting Raws Despite Options

it took some effort, and i dont remember all of what i did, but i finally got bridge to stop making auto adjustments on my raw images--though it still does if i zoom in when im full screened.
 
regardless, when i open a raw image in photoshop, it makes auto adjustments (and they are always hooorriblee).

-all the boxes under default settings are unchecked
- i select 'as shot' for white balance,

and so on; but without fail, every time it makes these ugly over saturated over contrasty or otherwise hideous versions of my images.
 
im not buying the whole 'digital negative' deal. i can see a full view images of my nondestroyed raw image, and seriously there needs to be a point to all the work i do on set to to get the right light and colors, and so on... im about to reinstall photoshop.
 
if i dedicate a lot of time, effort, and frustration, i can get them close to what they were, but its so impractical and frustrated to input this additional time for work.